Deception Tips Video 79 — Believe Body Language

Hey guys, my name is Spencer Coffman, thank you for watching the Deception Tips videos. They’re all about teaching you how to read people and detect deception so that you will be able to tell if someone is lying to you. Today, we are going to talk about just a general concept of this whole thing and what you need to look and what is important for you to believe.

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Remember, when people talk, they’re saying two different types, they are speaking two languages. Number one is that audible language that you’re hearing, number two is that hidden language that everybody speaks but almost nobody understands and that’s body language.

Hopefully, through the course of all these videos, if you checked out the podcasts, blog posts, or any of that other material that’s out there then you are starting and you can understand this body language.

One of these languages is truthful all the time and that is body language, so body language is what you need to believe which is what we are going to be talking more about today. So, here it is, this is Deception Tip number 79. Remember that body language is always truthful, and words can be deceptive. Always believe body language.

Body language is always truthful, why is this? This is because when people speak, we’re speaking from our conscious and when body language happens it is coming from the unconscious. Unless it’s something that’s fake then it could be coming from the conscious.

Remember we’ve talked about that with fake body language and fake expressions that they aren’t going to be symmetrical, congruent, spontaneous, simultaneous, all of those big words. They’re not going to match up with other things, with speech, with each other, with sides of the body, etc. You can review all of that in the past deception tips.

So, body language is truthful because it is coming from the unconscious. Remember the conscious and the unconscious are battling back and forth, the conscience is trying to get that lie out, the unconscious is trying to push the truth. When we’re consciously telling that lie through…