Hey guys, my name is Spencer Coffman, thank you for watching the Deception Tips videos. They’re all about teaching you how to read people and detect deception so that you will be able to tell if someone is lying to you. Today, we are going to talk about a tip that is very closely related to the one we talked about last week, you can check it out in a card up here.
We’re going to talk about whether it’s important to call out liars and when it’s important. Sometimes, people may be lying and the truth in that situation may be that it doesn’t even matter, so it’s up to you. If you can spot these lies, hopefully, you can through all of these deception tips we’ve been learning about, you’re able to see the truth and spot the lies.
Whether or not you are going to call it out, this is a heavy burden that you have on you because you’re able to see things that not everybody else can see, you’re understanding these things that not everyone else can understand. So, now that you have this new light or this new knowledge, what are you going to do with that? Are you going to use it to hurt people or are you going to use it to help people?
Are you just going to use it to have a broadened awareness of the world and keep it to yourself? It’s really up to you but it can hit you hard. So, that’s what we’re talking about today and here it is, this is Deception Tip number 88. When calling out a lie, ask yourself whether or not the truth really matters in that situation. So, this is probably the most important tip of the entire thing.
This is the one that is going to have the greatest impact on you and those around you, whether or not the truth matters and what you’re going to do about that. If you observe two people having a conversation, maybe someone is bringing someone some candy and they said, “Wow, thank you so much for this candy, I really appreciate it.” You happen to know that the person receiving the candy is allergic to chocolate and they just received some chocolate.
Are you going to say, “Hey, you’re allergic to chocolate, you can’t have that” and you’re going to make the…